Family, friends, and people from all over the country gathered at the Kootenai County Fairgrounds to remember the lives of two men.
Justin Luhr, Justin Honken, and Caitlin Breeze passed away after a boat crash on Lake Coeur d’Alene on July 30. There were five people on the other boat. The Kootenai County Sheriff’s Office is still investigating. No charges or arrests have been made in this case.
But friends wanted to hold this memorial benefit for the Luhr and Honken families to help with expenses.
Luhr and Honken were steer wrestlers. That’s how they knew each other. And that’s why they wanted to honor these men in this way.
“You’ve got better days and then you find yourself wishing it wasn’t true. That it was a dream,” says Heather Honken, Justin’s sister.
She and Kalyn Luhr, Justin Luhr’s wife, have been taking the last 70 days, each day at a time. Through it all, they hope people will remember the good times and both of the Justins’ sense of humor.
“I hope it’s not all for the sadness. I hope it’s for how they truly are,” Heather says.
“They always wanted to have fun,” Kalyn remembers.
Before the steer wrestling, there was a riderless horse program where Kalyn and Heather each rode with another horse by their side, with an empty saddle, remembering these men doing what they loved.
“Very heartfelt. We wrote everything about the boys. We picked the song. Just heart wrenching obviously realizing that they’re not going to be out there with us again. It’s over,” Kalyn says.
Despite the pain, they say the outpouring of support has helped and they want to thank them all.
If you still want to help the family with the costs of legal fees and more, they have a fund “Luhr and Honken Memorial” set up at INB where you can donate.